One of the most common desires people want to manifest after learning about the Law of Attraction is a loving relationship - sometimes with a prior partner. So is it possible to manifest your ex back?
The honest answer is that it really depends on the circumstances - why is it that you want them back?
Why an Ex and Not a New Partner?
In most cases, people who think they want their ex back don't really want their ex - they want the idea of what they think their relationship with their ex was.
When they picture they relationship they had with their ex, they focus on the good parts - the feeling of being loved - while ignoring the bad parts that led to the breakup.
And having a partner that you love and makes you feel loved is a wonderful thing, and certainly something worth trying to manifest.
However, desiring a romantic relationship with someone that does not want to be with you is NOT a perfect manifestation - because in a wonderful, amazing relationship, both people love each other. It also ignores the unwanted aspects of the prior relationship that led to your breaking up with each other in the first place.
The Law of Attraction is not about forcing other people to do things they do not want to do. It can allow you to do things like manifest interacting with people only when they are feeling their best, but it cannot be used to bend someone else's will.
So if someone does not want to have a relationship with you, you can't force them to do so. And would you really want to force someone to do something that they don't want to do?
Now, this does not mean that you cannot have a wonderful, loving relationship. But you do have to be open to having it come through someone else.
Need Vs. Want
When you decide that your relationship HAS to come through your ex, this one person, then you cut yourself off from better manifestations because you are making your external reality the basis for how you feel internally.
When you say, "I need it to happen this way or else I won't be happy", the Universe hears the vibration of, "I don't have what I want" and delivers exactly that - a lack of a relationship.
In short, if you need a loving relationship to come through this one avenue and make your happiness entirely dependent on it, then you won't be able to manifest it.
So instead, the better option is to go general with you feelings and focus simply on the desire of being and feeling loved. What does reciprocated love feel like? What do you see yourself thinking and doing with your partner? What if you knew that it was guaranteed that you would be in a fulfilling relationship?
When you know for certain that you will receive love and are open to it coming to you in an unexpected way, then you may find that it will come to you through your ex partner - or maybe someone even better.
The point is, if you want a relationship but no longer need one, then an amazing one can come to you - but you have to focus on feeling happy and fulfilled, no matter what, first.
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